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See also fixation@ROTI@tech-xx : too result-oriented and burn=materialistic_ROTI + self_discipline
A progressive, mellowing, fundamental change in my attitude —
Only a tiny percentage of my daily hours need to be, so-called, productive.
However, as I told my son, a bit of time each day should be spent on self-improvement. For his age, even 10 minues could be good enough.
As a side note, those earning more usually don’t spend more than 8 hours working or studying. However, for me studying and working are often therapeutic, providing meaning, vocation (passion) and occupation (killing time). I think grandpa may have a similar view on his vocation.
I no longer try so hard to make every hour “count”. I am now 100% sure it’s just unrealistic to be productive for more than 12 hours a day. In hind sight, even on a busy workday, or busy weekend, most of the hours are not really productive.
The “O2” and coblood concepts I developed myself (since my late teens?) No longer valid.
The chore^pleasure framework is more useful. The chores are often productive but some productive activities can be pleasurable.
The burn-or-rot concept is a more important element of “productivity” than roti. Burn means challenge, pushing yourself, beyond the comfort zone.
roti vs productive ?Productivity to me means some tangible output — 收获/fruitful . However, lots of productive activities have no measurable roti or no roti whatsoever.
- my reflective blogging, including those long emails I don’t require my recipients to read?
- my weight and chin-up improvement in late 2018 ranks as one of the greatest personal victories of my adult life. I spent months of personal time.
- learning localSys — high ROTI though not increasing my income
- in contrast, coding drill is definitely productive
- Einstein’s violin? He would consider it highly productive though it doesn’t produce entertainment value to anyone but himself
- Grandpa’s longing for recreation and hobby
- piano practice with kids? Apparently many parents have very clear answers. “When parents are gone, piano remains a lifelong companion to the child”, Cheng Lan said “a gift to their lives”.
- piano practice for myself? Yes burn!
- yoga | lower body flexibility tiny, temporary improvements — hugely productive because that’s my weakest weakness
- news or leisure reading? yes tangible output
- quality family time
- quality conversation with grandparents
- — some examples as listed in my google sheet on freeday]SG
- ikea trip with boy? unproductive with high tcost, though boy enjoyed it