Hi friends,
Category: gzGenTmp
Q:which country u call home
I can imagine a (legal or illegal) immigrant to the U.S. (or Sgp) without GreenCard. She has lived most if not 98% of her life in the this country (perhaps born here) and is more familiar with this country than her original country, but she has a relatively priviledged life in her original country (wealth, family network/relationships, status,,,)
Q: which country does she call home?
%%A: her original country, not the country where she spends most of her life ! In the U.S. she remains a second-class citizen (immigration status, skin color, wealth, Language,,,). She belongs to some sub-group, but not upper-middle class.
Aha: it’s your social strata within each country, that determine which country you prefer. You can call it exclub, FOLB or peer comparison.
[22]no more envy: underpaid cf US for20Y
This is a deep and long “bruise” (imperfect metaphor.. LG), occasionally painful but extremely common.
For most of my life, I was constantly envious of nationals of richer countries. More resources, bigger safety net, more life chances. That’s until I became SPR.
— underpaid .. When I became a SWE in SG, for years I was envious of SWE in U.S. — Same workload, I was paid far less.
Now in 2022, I feel whether in SG or WSt (where I can work), I am paid similar to the highest paid SWEs i.e. in WCBA.
[10] best manager for me #S.liu, Tanko
Nothing new to share — Just want to say Thank You again for giving me a lot of advice on working with managers.
Before GS, I had always avoided large companies, because in 2002 I had deeply negative experiences with large company politics. Then I decided to stick to finance. Now I can’t avoid large company politics any more.
I still feel the more Chinese-like, the worse I will suffer. I had Indian, Chinese, Singaporean and White managers. The best “match” are those relaxed, trusting, hands-off managers. Obviously, some of my Chinese managers are nice (forgiving and informal …) too. As a crude analogy, not all Chocolates are more bitter than all non-chocolate candies.
Inevitably, I will head back to Singapore and jump into the muddier water there, leaving behind the less-muddy water on Wall Street. I feel it’s critically important to find a “matching” manager, but I doubt I can tell over those telephonic interviews. I might be lucky to get a matching manager, but it’s more likely I will suffer quite a bit.
— in 2021, I told Tanko .. the perfect job/mgr is one who accepts me as a greying, low-energy, unambitious techie, who does get things done at a reasonable quality but slower pace. Tanko said some older managers are tolerant. Many team members are probably similar in productivity. Those fast workers are not necessarily more productive considering quality (rework, support issues…)
Tanko said he is older/slower than colleagues but more attentive to details. Sounds similar to me.
## profit lock-in #absorbency power-surge
##y some young dev took up c++
I keep this blogpost in this blog because it’s low-value low impact
Sudarshan said “I joined C++ because I wanted to work on C++ since it allows you understand some low level stuff in a better way”
[17] family-level stocktaking #10 items
- GC on-track
- wife career growth
- good, well-adjusted, healthy kids
- healthy grand parents
- long term (+retirement) cash-flow well-planned thanks to properties and the excellent environment of Singapore
- tech career longevity esp. in the U.S.
- still no growth direction
- mgr prospect dim .. painful to compare with them
- — the unremarkable
- stable marriage
- good education ….
- reasonable income
- health
[07] question`U.S. trec
@55, US trec is likely to beat SG trec on the job market, even though
* perhaps lower positions in US. Consider LN in China
* SGD and SG salary level could rise relative to US
Somehow US, Europe, Jap trec have d halo for the past …. years.
learn the slogan{boss
repeat what the boss says repeatedly. It may sound like fawning and servile.
Those principles are important to the team. Repeat to reinforce your own understanding.
authors on tech career – mostly for FTE
Bottom line – don’t spend too much time reading those authors.
To succeed professionally (and financially), you need to add value and be important to the organization (including your own business). Commercial value is not the only value. Leadership is not the only value-add…
Therefore, most authors write for the full-time employee — Implicit assumption.
The readers tend to be in their 20’s and 30’s, since people of my age are known to be less interested, so those authors will target the younger readers. [end]
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