##types@wood #bamboo

  • — ranked in typical strength and typical cost, though additional features/treatments of the material increase cost
  • Plywood
  • OrientedStrandBoard
  • MidiumDensityFiberboard
  • LowDensityFiberboard aka particle board

— bamboo feels lighter than wood, and harder than most (low-cost) woods

— natural timber has directions. Along the direction it can splinter. No such thing in LDF/MDF

— MDF is the most homogenous of all wood materials .. no grains
eg: my foldable table… fairly durable

MDF is stronger, more durable, more water resistant than LDF.

But MDF has worse screw holding capacity than LDF.

— LDF is usually cheapest and weakest. My stand`desk table top has 10Y guarantee, though any pinpoint damage to the LDF surface shows expansion due to water.

— OSB .. expands less in moisture, compared to LDF/MDF

— plywood … some categories include “external plywood” and “marine plywood” so the technology is versatile. See https://www.woodworkingtrade.com/plywood-vs-mdf-vs-particle-board-vs-osb-pros-cons/

However, the regular plywood we actually use may not have those special treatments/capabilities.

## t-penalty@commute #zsms

 


Q: which solutions are proven effective?
A: Short answer — very few, if any, but still we will keep trying.

  • solution: read letters or other compulsory reads
  • solution: read parenting magazines or books
  • solution: print out my blog and read? Fewer than 20% of the time I felt it was effective.
  • solution: fuxi tech books? About 20-30% of the time I found it effective.
  • solution: print out email draft and edit it in pencil? good
  • solution: laptop for coding practice? seldom tried. I am concerned about the warm-up
  • tip: call family?
  • solution: jog part of the journey
  • solution: wfh
  • U.S.tip: wtc route (with a $2.75 cost) — has minimum standing time (only 3 min from ExchPlace to WTC). Can read and blog on subway and also at WTC benches!
  • U.S.tip: Hoboken route — eliminates standing time
  • — now the numerous (subtle) obstacles that make the “toll” really hard to avoid
  • obstacle: no seat. Standing time is completely unusable:(
  • obstacle: dependency on pencil
  • obstacle: train frequency — This issue can effectively adds 20 minutes to the “toll”. You dare not miss the train so you end up coming in early and wait longer.
  • obstacle: concentration — Unless I go all the way to the final stop, my reading concentration is always interrupted.
  • obstacle: transfers — A transfer easily destroys 10 minutes of “concentration”
  • obstacle: brief train journey — due to concentration and other factors, I never made effective use of 5-minute train trips, where the total time taken (including transfer) is 10 minutes.
  • obstacle: train delays as Nirav described

[1] much longer than the station-to-station time.

— The problem of zsms and loss of control
For recreational reading/blogg, try to do that outside commute. Doing so on commute reduces my sense of self-mastery.

magazines/newspaper? higher chance of effective “itch-scratch” for the “toll” problem, than tech books.

— The (original ) problem of the “toll” and “penalty” — the door-to-door [1] time on commute shortens the “free” time I get for email, blogging, learning, exercise, chores etc.

WFH trend(U.S./SG)but I adapted2train commute #CNA

k_quietime

— [2021] Hi XR,

Thanks for sharing your personal preferences. I can understand that telecommuting has huge benefits in your circumstances, so huge that you are willing to change job for it. I think when I move to the U.S. I will also prefer partial telecommuting (commute too long) Therefore, I feel optimistic about the industry trend.

Believe it or not, many Singapore employers are forced to follow the same trend, as tech workers expect flexible work arrangements. Some workers even demand it, saying “If this employer is as rigid/outdated as before the pandemic, then I will prefer those adaptive employers.” Businesses need /adaptation/, as in natural selection theory (Darwinism). I believe the leading tech employers will adapt in order to compete for tech talents.

Right now in Singapore, I feel extremely lucky that I don’t suffer any of the commute headaches you described:

  • no cooking duty. My wife cooks.
  • no need to fetch kids. My wife does that whenever I’m in the office.
  • commute is 25min and very little walk. No transfer. I am able to study or blog about 80% of the time. I could be quite productive during my commute, so the commute hours are not “lost and wasted”, eroding the 24 hours we have.
  • train is punctual and reliable, with reasonable cost (S$2.60/day)

There are many small benefits to my daily commute:

  • on my commute I often pass by shops where I complete my shopping routine without making a separate shopping /errand/ from home.
  • I often do a bit of light exercise like climbing stairs, squat, stretch, and push-up at train stations or inside trains. Without my daily commute, I found it harder to motivate myself.
  • ^^ Therefore, I feel healthier, more efficient, more eco-friendly than those car commuters.

Adaption again — I have adapted my lifestyle to my daily commute. Therefore, without the daily commute, I am less efficient, less healthy.

When I can’t enter the office, I often go out to far-away places (libraries, cinemas, yoga, meet-ups) just to get out of home and enjoy the train rides.

==== 2023 CNA article on commute vs onsite work (https://www.channelnewsasia.com/commentary/transport-daily-commute-work-home-office-traffic-me-time-psychological-benefits-3365581)

“many patients I have seen in the past year have been relieved that they can return to the office despite having to endure the commute… (Office) social interactions helped provide support, validation, and inspiration to their work.”

— quietime .. COMMUTING – A CHORE OR MUCH-NEEDED “ME TIME”?

“For employees with family, work can sometimes be the only legitimate reason they can give themselves (or their spouse) to leave home and get some alone time.”

“commutes allowed them a time to be truly free from both work and family, and they were able to detach their mind from the everyday worries of work and ordinary life.”

I don’t enjoy screen-entertainment during commute. Instead, my favorite combination is

  • reading print or electronic media, usually with a pen.
  • seated on a train. (Bus is bad for reading)
  • frequent trains, without long waiting

##[18] life enriched: 5 subtle factors #yoga,wifi

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  • frequent exercise classes
  • wifi in many shops nearby. Ever since 1995 Ginza Plaza McDonald’s…
  • —food: healthy, tasty and high-end
  • lots of fancy fruits
  • fish — but not fried
  • breakfast porridge
  • green-machine

—home location factors .. expensive  not “subtle”

    • well-maintained street
    • short commute by bike (or train). Unlike many of my peers, I just can’t get used to long commute
    • parks or waterfront nearby? actually not so important. See Parks: less important than well-maintained street
    • time for exercise, family .. rather than long hours “wasted” on commute or in office.

 

OpenContainer law across states

The open container laws of most states prohibit drivers and passengers from possessing an open container of alcohol in a vehicle. Generally, a person can be in violation of the law whether the vehicle is in motion or parked.

exception: Typically, open containers can lawfully be kept in the trunk or an area of the vehicle not readily accessible to the driver or passengers.

refund/return policies]U.S. #guilt

Many store owners have a fine-grained control over return policy.

I remember ctown@Bayonne. I think the owner has a policy that any returned merchandize must be absolutely good enough for resale. If an ice cream is opened but apparently untouched, then he needs to judge the customer’s integrity. He once put my returned ice cream back on the shelf, right in front of me, as a silent but /stark reminder/ to me “Hey, if you are dishonest then another buyer will eat your leftovers.”

In contrast, many shops esp. big shops like Walmart accept returns without hesitation. Most of the items would be sent back to producer for refurbishment/recycling, automatically, but some returned items would be discarded, such as food.

I often feel guilty about the waste. So I often return the item unopened, in original packaging, either in SG or U.S.

I think these shops have a bigger profit margin to absorb this kinda “marketing cost”. The generous return i.e. try-buy is a marketing policy.

deed poll + birth cert: safekeep`

See also

==== my birth cert (by 方圆公证处)
— Moisture .. a real risk. Over 30Y the paper has stayed dry so far.

Sugg: keep it in airtight ziplock.

— color copies… Most places can’t tell — the “original” I received could be a copy of something physically locked in an archive.

— travel .. I have carried this single paper copy during my dozens of home moves including flights. I often kept it in office for a few “busy” days.

Sugg: avoid carrying original. Just carry color copies during travel.

==== deed poll..
— lamination .. doesn’t prevent loss, but does prevent severe damage including moisture.

The cover page (unsigned) .. “naked” original can be reproduced easily.. no signature 🙂 If I declare that the deed poll has only one page, would anyone question or suspect me? I doubt it as the cover page has no real information whatsoever. Therefore, it could be better to discard the cover page completely… travel light.

— Q2: how do we keep for 80Y?

List of alternative documents if the naked original paper unavailable:

  • electronic copy
  • laminated copy
  • certified copy

Q1: What if original is lost or completely damaged? What if lamination is unacceptable?
A: in SG we can try ApexLaw. I believe it is much easier ( to deal with ) in Singapore.
A: in other countries, we have to ask local authorities what evidence they accept to link the birth cert to whatever document bearing TKX. In that country, we don’t if local authority would accept any proof including the original deed poll.

Loss is a much worse event than damage. Generally, birth cert is easier to reproduce and verify. Often the birth hospital has some record. I’m generally relaxed about birth certs.

 

[20]y I have a warm feeling for NYC

(A letter I didn’t send out)

After hearing your first impression of NYC, I decided to take this opportunity to reflect why I have a warm feeling for the big apple.

Many Americans tell me NYC is full of energy. There are many young people, and many events. They make me feel lively, not lonely. I certainly wish to see more Chinese faces. Luckily, some of those young people (and older guys) attracted to New York City are actually Chinese. The three Chinatowns in NYC (Manhattan Chinatown, Flushing and eighth avenue) make me feel less isolated than in other U.S. cities. Jersey City also has a large Chinese population, much higher than an average U.S. city.

NYC is more inclusive, more diverse, i.e. less white.

NYC offers more diverse job choices and education choices. Makes me feel less boxed in less restricted and more free.

I don’t like car ownership and NYC is less car-dependent mostly due to the subway which runs 24-hours. NYC also has more buses than most US cities.

Incomes are slightly higher in NYC than other U.S. cities. I feel lucky for that. Even though prices are also higher, I don’t usually buy anything in Manhattan. As a result, I get to save more in NYC than other cities.

My family income is not high. Many “nicer” locations of U.S. are higher income. I actually feel poor living in those locations when my neighbors all earn higher. NYC has many low-income residents, and I feel not so left-out and left-behind.

Bayonne Chinese restaurants: lessons learnt

I now prefer fried rice ..

  • easier to keep. Next day doesn’t become ruined, so I am significantly more likely to “spread it out” to 2 – 5 meals.
  • I was able to keep vegetable fried rice for 4 days in fridge and it was still ok ! In contrast, many dishes from Bayonne Chinese restaurants would go bad in 4 days
  • bread + vegetable fried rice is now a tested combination
  • if no white rice or bread, the fried rice can be taken as a meal all by itself.
  • I can also add some raw carrot!
  • I can also add some pickles or meat to go with white rice + fried rice

The gravy idea was almost never really achieved at these economical Chinese restaurants.

Fried tofu is always more tasty than soft tofu. 麻婆豆腐 is almost never authentic.