k_anger_mgmt
The “k_anger_mgmt” header keyword means my anger management. It is relevant here.
Anger is normal human emotion (like when we feel injustice or “cheated”), but aggression and violence is not.
When my son shows aggressive anger, I often show a “cold” Policeman stance, as cold as stone. It’s one of my confrontational stances. There are better stances.
— external support such as counselling
As I said, academic studies are important, but not as important as character. Therefore, we can skip academic sessions and make time to meet the counselor.
Until that time, the main support is mom and dad (me). Grandma used to be a key support.
— Why does he become aggressive. Not so obvious.
Unfair, cheated,,,,
Frustrated by the non-winning argument. He has a big itch, but his scratch was blocked.
— Sugg : Develop a plan for the next angry moment.
Best to have mom on board.
Perhaps watching TV is one of his coping solutions. I was perhaps wrong to crack down on it when he was angry.
Perhaps yelling at someone is one of his coping behaviors. I need to be aware. Yelling is not as dangerous as physical aggression, but bad influence for meimei.
physical activity is often an effective release of aggressive anger. Punchbag?