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https://www.channelnewsasia.com/commentary/psle-results-role-models-late-bloomers-beat-the-odds-568471 is a Channel News Asia commentary I read when receiving my son’s Primary School Leaving Exam results. Some of the words resonated with me.
“What’s wrong with being average?”
“The stories we tell ourselves matter. For once, I would like to see attention given to folks, who scored, for instance, 270 (something like top 0.2%), for PSLE, sharing that they are now working at an unimpressive job, but that their professional and social status doesn’t bother them”
Most of the top students I know in my career are not _that_ successful in terms of leadership, tangible (non-financial) achievements, or compared to your income. I think most of these top students turned out mediocre (普通人). I like to talk about these stories every time I discuss top schools and top students.
Many parents tell the late bloomer stories, but those stories drive home the wrong message (see the CNA article). I want to be different — I like to talk about the exam-success-but-mediocre-professional stories. These are the most powerful and valuable stories, like the kid at the end of [[Emperor’s new clothes]]. They reveal a startling truth about exam success.
(intellectual) lifelong learning .. Instead of exam success, you once pointed out a truer measure of learning capacity. I notice the same point in various articles — lifelong learning habit is a more accurate predictor of a person’s learning capacity. Those who keep learning throughout their lifetime .. tend to end up with better learning outcomes.
Note lifelong learning is related to, but not correlated with, late-bloomer. Late bloomers have tenacity, resilience, life-long self-improvement, but they may not be lifelong “learners” in terms of bookish knowledge. My father and I are examples of lifelong learners — we both keep reading/writing, and we implicitly benchmark ourselves against fellow learners. |
On a side note, I don’t even think top exam scores equate to academic achievement. High school and lower-grade exams are all about knowledge, repetitive practice, not research, not innovative, not ground-breaking, not even close to the frontier of human knowledge. My father wrote 20+ academic books, some ground-breaking. High-school top exam takers can’t write a single research paper … until they shift focus off the exams.