– Be sensitive to their feelings but don’t strain yourself.

– Be like a Roman when in Rome, but bear in mind …

– If you are fair, polite, sensitive, .. then God will help you and sooner or later they will see your good heart.

– shrink

– Be very, very patient. “what is impossible just takes a little longer”

– Be careful but relax too. (Look at Mom.)

– Listen more

– Don’t need to be too open