In speaking, *content* drives para-linguistics, including warmth,
tone, etiquette… I feel i should not get too concerned about
para-linguistics when there are serious room for improvement in
content.

Content is affected by pdl, perception, attitude, strategy ….

People tell me to show more respect. I believe if i have enough
respect, then it's unlikely to show a lack of it.

People tell me to watch out for the “challenge” tone.

People tell me to reverse the order of sentences.

Experts talk about the first 7 seconds…

Experts point out 'what' to say is less impt than “how” to say it.

NLP…