For grandma, having a friend listening to her is a major “wellbeing/福分”. I guess she would really suffer if without it. I also need grandpa (or a friend) listening to me.

Most of my adult life I don’t have enough listener so it often feels like a luxury.

Similarly, having more time+facilities available for my reflective blogging is a major benefit which I’m willing to pay for. Reflective blogging is a major part of my “wellbeing/福分”

Both chitchat and blogging provide stress relief as a major health benefit.

Shocking conclusion — A busy job is therefore a hazard to me!