avoid(mild?)punishment after kid backs down@@

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I think this practice is dangerous … could send the wrong signal to the kid.

We don’t want to abuse our power as parents. We want kids to regard us as fair, just, reasonable, not a bully.
We don’t revenge against our kids …

Eg — https://btv-open.dreamhosters.com/2015/12/25/christmas-2015-first-time-i-abused-my-power-as-parent-to-punish-my-son/

Q: So how do we ensure bad behavior has consequences?
Sugg: how about leveraging weekly budget? Better than deducting points
Sugg: eat more vegie