well done: not arrogant, no big ego
well done: impatial and unbaised
well done: sensitive, even over-sensitive, to her body lang
well done: i noticed the key difference in the 2 persons’ reactions to perceived /tension/. she chooses to keep quiet and use some (ambiguous) body lang; i choose to put my sentiments and questions into carefully chosen (but still imperfect) words.
well done: i didn’t get angry and lose control
well done: i could have said too much
well done: good control on my words. well-controlled choice of words
well done: throughout i was able to show that i care. i never turned my back on her. i was caring and gentle and not taking position
well done: in the heat of it, i was cool headed enough to realize several minutes of reduced sleep is not serious.