– Thank God she likes a simple life style
– Thank God we are both willing to sacrifice
– Thank God we are both healthy
– Thank God at least we found NY to be an acceptable choice we can return to
– Thank God we met HL
– Thank God i have the free advice from LS and other friends
– Thank God Boston has a chinese community, even if a bit far
– Thank God i managed to sell myself to at least some clients
– Thank God my resume received at least some positive response

Just don't compare. Comparison is likely to be emotional and
illogical, as each person has his or her unique differences.