[23]stressor profile after/around Bj15d+SepPEK

After SepPEK trip, (BJ15d even worse) was a high-stress period, even though a vacation. The preceding months also have many stressors. This bpost is a profiling+review. See also ##G3frustrations travell`2Chn

  1. boy screen time and study attitude .. a dissatisfaction blackhole
  2. epaJob: OKR project .. Genepai
  3. aging parents
  4. epaJob: compliance breaches [R.Teo, pre-clearance,] was a serious threat to my job security
  5. [$] night heat and mosquito over 2023
  6. epaJob: frequent BlueCoat strikes
  7. [$] Edyw was the biggest storm/burst@bubble in recent months since start of school term .. luckily, the wonder pill…
  8. meimei math difficulties as shown in the exams
  9. Bj15d: [$] smemo + git blogg .. inadequate note-taking facilities. I had to use phone 🙁
  10. [$=money can help]

If we don’t leave our comfort zone i.e. Sgp, we hit fewer bursts/storms/derailers.

Warning: Am growing more attached and dependent on my comfortable epaJob, so any derailers on the job tend to feel more painful than before.

I have put aside my recreational reading.

— There are also some –> delights [pleasant surprises] and progresses <– to offset the negatives. See also the +ve twsiter sections of bj15d trip

  • fixed: wifi deadzone in kitchen
  • fixed: Wife’s $9/M Giro uncertainty
  • fixed: ChnM Rmb 18/M high maintenance cost; high voice cost during my next Beijing visit
  • fixed: insufficient balance in ICBC account. Top-up in advance.
  • fixed: HSBC USD policy uncertainty
  • fixed: grandpa’s handset too low
  • fixed: no citrix in L360
  • fixed: booked CareCorner counselling to help desparate mom
  • fixed: HSR + flight taken care of
  • fixed: wifi deadzone around kitchen; no printer in Cockpit4 when needed
  • fixed: no family outing since after Bj15d
  • fixed: uncertainty how to use up $120 worth of bonus linkpoint
  • progress: Arnel A/C and renewal
  • progress: more chia seeds
  • progress: two successful intimacy sessions after Bj15d
  • progress: wireless@sg visit
  • — half-ranked
  • the ED pill ..
  • (emotional) closure on the Brazil investment.
  • boy’s piano Grade6; meimie’s grade 3
  • BGC title finally making progress
  • ants in #1169 under control
  • 159xxx ChnM package worked exactly as planned
  • MB.khm USD IR improving
  • — Well done
  • comm channel with boy … still maintained
  • bathing for grandpa .. important to grandma
  • USD 24k
  • [$] Poly EAE opportunity.. boy didn’t ignore it.
  • RSP position reduced, after a year of waiting
  • mid-year chat .. no down turn
  • [$] simlim shop to enable msff on L399, saved about $100 MSFF license
  • Boy’s NRIC
  • dental check to reassure myself “All is well.”
  • Citi and MB.khm USD renewal
  • hopeless mufu in OC account
  • Sep trip booked
  • mtg FPP 4 Jul
  • real fast progress on Phill project, esp. SMBC tbl
  • active days + diet … regain control

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