) busy environment
) bring lunch to office
) OK to be labelled “…”
) try not to perceive this as a stressor. It IS not. Invert your view. POR
) xp: many times I invited colleagues to tea && lunch
) Sometimes, treat it like an informal, relaxed version of a regular meeting. Since a meeting is usually something u need to attend, paradoxically this absence of choice makes things less tricky/complicated and more straight-forward.

Tanko suggests:
* invest long term in this career
* “No chance to find out other aspects about tan bin” because workplace interaction is perceived as limited
* Many take afer-work gathering as a chance to know each other.