Hard to find a short title for this bpost, but I will try anyway. If I keep trying I’m sure I can find a better way to manage this title:)
| addiction(吃喝玩乐), poor initiative +mtv. lack 上进, 奋发图强. | self-responsible #excl mtv | aggression + abusive | |||||||
| diet, exercise, piano | misplaced; urine | eg | |||||||
| health; academic; confidence. 少壮不努力老大徒伤悲 |
People can’t trust him with important objects. Also shared resources get messed up. |
threats and harm to others | how serious | ||||||
| #2: benchmark | #3 | #1 hurtful remarks (脏话) | mother’s concern | ||||||
| #1: addiction #2: effort/mtv | LGlp | #3 | my concern | ||||||
| phone lock-up | fines | phone; kneeling for 脏话 | typical discipline | ||||||
| targeting self-mtv | targeting maturity | not applicable | sunshine (optimism, patience) | ||||||
| Yes. Patience needed | yes immaturity | no | due to his immaturity? | ||||||
Excluded (for better focus) from the table: minor lies. Grandpa pointed out 他善良随和，没有和父母作对, refusing to communicate or cooperate.
David of Cigna said his most important focus is the communication channel. He as a father invests hugely to keep the channel open.