Compared to the Chinese, Americans are more expressive and chatty with strangers. It makes strangers feel more welcome. I like this aspect of the US culture.

These same Americans tend to be more “open” and vulnerable. I appreciate that. Doesn’t mean weaker.

This often comes across as long-winded, just like me. I actually feel long-winded chats can lead to unexpected topics.

The Chinese can also become very chatty after they know each other well. Once they open up, Chinese people can also become long-winded.