k_X_FOMO_v_livelihood

• As a teenager, I wanted to be good at shooting basket, then I found dribbling as a less noticed but important skill. Ultimately, I wanted to be a better basketballer, not just in school, but for life.
• Now in my 40’s i see dribbling, or shooting skills as secondary to 3) muscle/bone strength 2) flexibility and 1) heart/lung fitness. Among these factors, Fitness is the #1 factor in terms of impact on quality and length of my life.
• So in conclusion, better focus on fitness rather than dribbling or shooting per se.

This is an example of other people’s envy and “FOMO” as the “wrong priority”. This is a common theme in my life and the lives of many.

— Why is top school, trophy college so important to parents? Wrong priority !

— why is big car, big house, big vacations so important? Wrong priority !

I think many would agree livelihood is more important than that wrong priority.

I feel Brbr, disposable income are more important than that wrong priority.

I think most would agree the ffree is more valuable.

— why are OC_effectiveness, slowTrack, brank peer comparison .. bother me so much? Wrong priority !

I feel career longevity is a good target.

I feel health and family harmony are more important than those wrong priorities.

I personally think carefree is more important than those wrong priorities.