##boy’s 4 frightening experiences: parent-inflicted

k_anger_mgmt

  1. First time is X’mas2015 piano – 1st time I abused my power to punish boy
  2. 2nd time is “holding both arms out front horizontally”, sometime in P2
  3. 3rd time — wife was infuriated and threw a plastic toy that hit his lip. Dabao was / frightened /, but I believe he knows Mom was annoyed like hell and did it by accident
  4. 4th time — hard slapping on dabao’s lap

In all these incidents, the parent lost his/her cool and the kid felt frightened, over-punished, or even unsafe.