Don’t blame yourself for your (legitimate) need for reflective diary since 15.

This need has sizable tcosts but lower total-cost than other people’s idiosyncrasies like

• fine dining,
• gaming
• vacationing
• cooking,
• shopping,
• DIY home improvement, home decoration,
• news junkie,
• yoga — is an unnecessary luxury for some women, not really for wellness
• photography,
• board games …

Similarly,

1. Don’t scold yourself (as a weakling) that you can’t sleep upright
   • Don’t feel self-pity if you are 1.9m tall and can’t feel comfortable flying economy
2. Don’t blame grandma and boy …. for their sensitivity to heat
3. Don’t scold your son …. that his absorbency is lower than his classmates’.
4. Don’t criticize your wife … that she has low positive feeling, low absorbency for physical exercise.
5. Don’t see your stomach as weak when it “rejects” any unclean food. As Winnie put it, my stomach is sensitive and self-protective.
6. Don’t despise yourself that you aren’t a manager type and can’t follow the footsteps of those high-flier classmates