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I usually prefer specific, low-level lists, but this one can be high-level. see also https://btv-open.dreamhosters.com/2015/12/21/major-stressors-over-the-years/

Risk – difficulty re-entering USA
Risk – difficulty with UChicago
Risk – age discrimination
Risk – narrowing career path
Risk – health issue – Grandma or Grandpa, or wife. My cholesterol is causing some problems.
Risk – marriage
Risk – kids becoming rebellious
Risk – diminishing competitiveness on job market

The cornerstones (roughly ranked)

1. my own career longevity — rockbed
2. health n fitness, rest, mental fitness –> confidence, freedom
3. marriage – stable and supportive
4. kids well-being and exams
5. wife’s career
6. savings, bx, investment